Your plan looks perfect. That's the problem.

You've set up the project board. You've picked the app. You've broken the work into phases, the phases into tasks, and the tasks into subtasks with estimates.

It looks great. Honestly, it's the best plan you've ever made.

It's also three weeks old, and the first task is still open.

If this is you, you already know the uncomfortable part. Planning felt like work. It even felt like the responsible thing. But the plan is not the project, and somewhere along the way it started standing in for it.

Why it happens

Planning gives you the feeling without the risk

Starting the real work means finding out it's harder than you thought. Planning carries no such risk. You can't fail at a plan. You can only make it better.

Sirois and Pychyl's research on putting things off comes down to one mechanism: in the moment, people choose what makes them feel better now (Sirois & Pychyl, 2013). Planning feels like progress. Doing feels like exposure. On a tired Tuesday, the plan wins again.

Talking about the goal can quietly satisfy it

Peter Gollwitzer and colleagues ran a series of experiments on what happens when people announce their intentions. Participants who told others about a goal tied to who they wanted to be worked less hard on it afterwards than those who kept it to themselves. The researchers' explanation: being seen as the kind of person who has the goal already felt like a step towards it (Gollwitzer, Sheeran, Michalski & Seifert, 2009).

A beautiful plan can work the same way. It's a visible sign of the person who is doing the project. Having the sign can take the edge off needing the project.

Your plan is probably optimistic

There's a second cost. Plans made in advance tend to be too hopeful. Roger Buehler and colleagues asked students to predict when they would finish their thesis. Fewer than a third finished by the time they had predicted, and most took a good deal longer (Buehler, Griffin & Ross, 1994).

So the detailed timeline isn't only delaying the work. It's also probably wrong. The only way to find out how long a task really takes is to do a piece of it.

Small ways in

Set a planning budget

Decide how long planning gets: twenty minutes, one page. When the budget is spent, planning is over for today. Whatever you have is the plan.

Do the first task before you finish the plan

Open the project board, take the first task, and do it now, before the rest of the board is tidy. A plan with one finished task teaches you more than a perfect plan with none.

Replace estimates with a timer

Don't guess how long task one will take. Set a timer for 25 minutes and see how far you get. That number is real. Use it to fix the rest of the plan.

Plan the next step only

"Next: write the intro paragraph." Not the chapter, not the book. When it's done, plan the next one. A plan that's always one step long can't grow into a project of its own.

Keep the goal to yourself for a week

If you've been talking about the project more than working on it, try a week of silence. Tell people when something is done, not when something is planned.

Try this now: Open your plan. Find the smallest open task. Close the plan. Do that task for ten minutes.

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