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No motivation to do anything? Start with one very small thing.

By the StartKick team · Updated

This time it isn't one task you're avoiding. It's most things. Getting up, answering messages, even the stuff you used to enjoy. You know roughly what would help. You just can't find the part of you that wants to.

So the day goes by on the sofa or in bed, scrolling through things you don't care about. By evening you feel worse for having done nothing, and tomorrow starts a step further behind.

Why do I have no motivation to do anything?

Motivation usually gets talked about as fuel you need before you can start. Often it works the other way round. You do a small thing, it goes okay, and a bit of wanting shows up afterwards. When you're running low, waiting for the feeling to come first can mean waiting a long time.

Low motivation also has ordinary causes: poor sleep, too much on for too long, no clear next step, or a run of days where effort didn't seem to lead anywhere. It says less about your character and more about what has been draining you.

Lack of motivation isn't the same as not caring

You can care about something and still not feel like doing it. Caring is about what matters to you. Feeling like it is about how much energy and clarity you have today. When the second runs out, the first is still there, waiting for a start small enough to fit what you have left.

That's worth holding on to on the days it feels like you've stopped caring about anything. The caring may be quieter than usual. It doesn't have to be loud for a small start to count.

Why am I so unmotivated? Try a smaller start

BJ Fogg, who runs the Behavior Design Lab at Stanford, built his method on one idea. When motivation is low, don't try to raise it. Make the behavior so small that low motivation is enough (Fogg, 2019).

So "get back into exercise" becomes "walk to the end of the street". "Sort out my inbox" becomes "answer the shortest email". If you stop there, it still counts. Feeling unmotivated can ease a little once you've done something, even something tiny, because now there's a small win to build on.

How StartKick helps

StartKick helps you get going on things you keep putting off, even when that's most things. The free 2-minute check looks at how starting goes for you right now and suggests what to try next. Then you get one small first step for a real task, with a two-minute timer. If it still feels like too much, ask for a smaller one.

If you want support for longer, the 28-day plan gives you a short session each day, sized to the time you have. Habit Builder helps you build up to three habits at once, 60 days each, and a coach suggests one small step at a time. The coach is software, not a person. You get 3 days free (card needed), then pay $29€29£29 for your first year and $59€59£59 a year after that. Or pay $7.99€7.99£7.99 a month instead, with the same free days. Cancelling takes one tap.

StartKick is a self-reflection tool, not medical advice. If this has lasted weeks, or you feel hopeless, talk to a doctor or someone you trust. If you're thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 (US), call Samaritans on 116 123 (UK and Ireland), or call your local emergency number.

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Sources

Fogg, B. J. (2019). Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt. https://tinyhabits.com/book/